Mindfulness of the Breath

Mindfulness of the Breath

  1. Settle into a comfortable sitting position, either on a straight-backed chair or on a soft surface on the floor, with your buttocks supported by cushions or a low stool. If you use a chair, it is very helpful to sit away from the back of the chair, so that your spine is self supporting. If you sit on the floor, it is helpful if your knees actu­ally touch the floor; experiment with the height of the cushions or stool until you feel comfortably and firmly supported.
  2. Allow your back to adopt an erect, dignified, and comfortable posture. If sitting on a chair, place your feet flat on the floor, with your legs uncrossed. Gently close your eyes. It may help to imagine a light thread attached to the back of your scalp pulling your head gently upwards and allowing your spine to lengthen.
  3. Bring your awareness to the level of physical sensations by focusing your attention on the sensations of touch and pressure in your body where it makes contact with the floor and whatever you are sitting on. Spend a minute or two exploring these sensations.
  4. Now bring your awareness to the changing patterns of physical sensations in the lower abdomen as the breath moves in and out of your body (When you first try this practice, it may be helpful to place your hand on your lower abdomen and become aware of the changing pattern of sensations where your hand makes contact with your abdomen, Having “tuned in” to the physical sensations in this area in this way, you can remove your hand and continue to focus on the sensa­tions in the abdominal wall.)
  5. Focus your awareness on the sensations of slight stretching as the abdominal wall rises with each inbreath, and of gentle deflation as it falls with each outbreath. As best you can, follow with your awareness the changing physical sensations in the lower abdomen all the way through as the breath enters your body on the inbreath and all the way through as the breath leaves your body on the outbreath, perhaps noticing the slight pauses between one inbreath and the following outbreath, and between one outbreath and the following inbreath.
  6. There is no need to try to control the breathing in any way—simply let the breath breathe itself. As best you can, also bring this attitude of allowing to the rest of your experience. There is nothing to be fixed, no particular state to be achieved. As best you can, simply allow your experience to be your experience, without needing it to be other than it is.
  7. Sooner or later (usually sooner), your mind will wander away from the focus on the breath in the lower abdomen to thoughts, planning, daydreams, drifting along—whatever. This is perfectly OK—it’s simply what minds do. It is not a mis­take or a failure. When you notice that your awareness is no longer on the breath, gently congratulate yourself—you have come back and are once more aware of your experience! You may want to acknowledge briefly where the mind has been (“Ah, there’s thinking”). Then, gently escort the awareness back to a focus on the changing pattern of physical sensations in the lower abdomen, renewing the inten­tion to pay attention to the ongoing inbreath or outbreath, whichever you find.
  8. However often you notice that the mind has wandered (and this will quite likely happen over and over and over again), as best you can, congratulate yourself each time on reconnecting with your experience in the moment, gently escorting the attention back to the breath, and simply resume following in awareness the chang­ing pattern of physical sensations that come with each inbreath and outbreath.
  9. As best you can, bring a quality of kindliness to your awareness, perhaps seeing the repeated wanderings of the mind as opportunities to bring patience and gen­tle curiosity to your experience.
  10. Continue with the practice for 15 minutes, or longer if you wish, perhaps remind­ing yourself from time to time that the intention is simply to be aware of your ex­perience in each moment, as best you can, using the breath as an anchor to gently reconnect with the here and now each time you notice that your mind has wan­dered and is no longer down in the abdomen, following the breath. You may wish to focus your concentration by counting your breaths. On the outbreath say “one” quietly to yourself and then “two” on the next outbreath. When you reach “ten”, start at the beginning again, saying “one”, “two”, “three” on the outbreaths.
  11. Mindfulness exercises are best done before eating eg before breakfast or the evening meal. If you have had a drink or used any other drugs, allow their effects to wear off before trying to meditate

She Hustle Magazine Volume 1

By Danielle Pilon in She Hustle Collective Magazine

52 pages, published 8/15/2020

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